Did you ever think about that it never matters which of the two moves in the corner you play :) most of you probably have, but the realisation didn't come to me until a few years ago when I programmed some D&B software. I just thought of it and thought that maybe someone didn't think of it :)
Sometimes I'm spending multiple minutes thinking about which of the two moves I should play. I know it absolutely doesn't matter but then I just can't ignore the optical difference and try to optimise the "beauty" of the board as much as possible. When I'm done choosing I realise that I totally wasted my time again and that just makes me sad every time. The title is a lie... it's more a corner frustration than anything to be honest.